by Jacqui Smit | COVID-19 and kids, anxiety, boundaries, education, parenting, schooling |
To motivate your teen to study can be a real challenge. Many teenagers are stereotyped as lazy and unmotivated children who want nothing more than to sleep in, socialise with friends and entertain themselves with their smartphones, laptops, and gaming consoles. But this stereotype isn’t really fair at all. It’s understandable because this behaviour is what parents see, but it’s ultimately misguided.
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by Elmien Ackerman | bullying, boundaries, cyberbullying, homeschooling, Self-esteem, teens |
what if your child is the bully? How should you approach the situation to prevent your child from harming others (physically and/or psychologically)?
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by Jozikids | self-esteem, child/teen, health, health, parenting, Self-esteem |
Let’s take some royal tips on how to be selfish, or to self-love – just like a queen
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by Andy Cohen | health, anxiety, self-esteem, Self-esteem |
By Andy Cohen, a Psychoanalytic Candidate, Community Art Counsellor, artist and mother of 2. She is also the author and illustrator of Wish You Were Here, a children’s book which explores loss and parenting with a light-hearted touch. Stomach aches in children are a...Read more
by Sarah Hoffman | anxiety, cyberbullying |
Bullies have always existed. However, in the digital age, the bullying we are seeing is worse than ever before for several reasons:
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by Andy Cohen | anxiety, being present, emotions, internet, social media |
By Andy Cohen, a Psychoanalytic Candidate, Community Art Counsellor, artist and mother of 2. She is also the author and illustrator of Wish You Were Here, a children’s book which explores loss and parenting with a light-hearted touch. Momo is this year’s boogeyman....Read more
by Mia Von Scha | self-esteem, health, Self-esteem |
Here are 10 things that you can focus on to help your children to develop these kinds of relationships that will protect their health, brains and happiness…
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by Fatima Kazee | boundaries, internet, internet security, rules, technology |
There’s no escaping it… Kids and technology usage are a reality and the sooner parents realise this, the better. Instead of trying to keep your child in the dark ages (which seems to be the 90s for kids of today) perhaps parents ought to equip themselves with important information that will assist them in keeping tabs on their child’s internet usage without being over-intrusive, especially with teens.
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by Fatima Kazee | boundaries, internet, technology, technology |
Would you ever consider driving your kids around without buckling them up in a seat belt? How about riding their bikes without a helmet? No, you wouldn’t. Why then are we allowing our kids to use the internet without any safety or security measures in place?
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by Fatima Kazee | motherhood, teens |
And so it has arrived… the year my son becomes a teenager. Looking back to the time he was born, I remember how so many parents were willing to give me all kinds of advice about having a baby. (Some not so welcomed but taken nonetheless) But as they get older and reach different phases of their lives (and mine), it seems the advice runs drier. Grandparents often tell stories about when we were their age but times are so different that it’s as though we’re dealing with a new species of human.
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by Mia Von Scha | behaviour, boundaries, discipline, tantrums |
The word discipline comes from the word disciple, which means to lead. Leading means being a good example of how things are done rather than telling people what to do. Leading does not involve hitting people or banishing them from your presence. Great leaders are generally patient because they can remember how it feels to not know what they do now and how to assist their disciples in going beyond their current state.
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by Carol Surya | addiction and depression, bullying, cyberbullying, suicide |
Bulling isn’t an inevitable part of growing up. Research shows that whether your child is being bullied, being the bully, or watching their friend being bullied, they need help. It affects everyone (even you as parents) and often has a major impact on children’s developing sense of self, school performance and self-esteem (even into adulthood).
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by Mia Von Scha | boundaries, communication, human rights, Self-esteem, violence |
The main way that children learn consent is by getting to practice it themselves. They need opportunities to say “no” and also to have “no” said to them and to learn the appropriate responses. As adults, we violate this in so many subtle ways every day.
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