{"id":8741,"date":"2015-05-25T21:12:41","date_gmt":"2015-05-25T19:12:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/responsive.jozikids.co.za\/zaparents\/?p=8741"},"modified":"2022-06-22T12:45:43","modified_gmt":"2022-06-22T10:45:43","slug":"playtime","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/blog\/activities-and-outings\/games\/playtime\/","title":{"rendered":"Playtime!"},"content":{"rendered":"

World Play Day is being celebrated this Thursday (28 May 2015) with local activities being organised by non-profit organisation Cotlands. Some may scoff at a day being dedicated to playing but in a world where our children are under constant pressure to excel academically, playtime is becoming more and more important.I spend a lot of time away from my girls, 7 and 4, due to work which includes two hours daily travel time so I really enjoy a bit of playtime with them and I\u2019m not afraid to admit that I love being a kid with them!<\/p>\n

We mostly play the \u2018old-fashioned\u2019 games<\/strong> because we don\u2019t need any special equip for most of them and we can play the games anytime we want. Most of the rules are pretty basic which is important with little ones who can get frustrated if you keep telling them they\u2019re doing things all wrong.<\/p>\n

We\u2019ve got some active games<\/strong> like blind man\u2019s bluff (is that still pc\u2026? Lol). I just fold a long-sleeved t-shirt and use that as a blindfold. I keep the game to a small area like the lounge or our main bedroom where they are less likely to bump into sharp corners or hard furniture.<\/p>\n

Hide and seek \u2013 in and around our home which is obviously child-safe. It\u2019s hilarious because both girls are prone to letting on to where they are hiding within a few minutes of the start of the seeking and my 4-year-old has a tendency to find a favourite hiding spot for the day, and repeatedly goes to that spot.<\/p>\n

\u201cKing, king\u201d or \u201cQueen, queen\u201d let\u2019s the girls contort themselves into snakes, frogs and babies, as I tell them how many steps they can take towards me, with the one reaching me first being declared the winner. It\u2019s one of my \u2018lazy\u2019 games where I can chill on the couch as they move across the lounge towards me.<\/p>\n

I have to confess, I prefer the \u2018lazy\u2019 games<\/strong> after a long day\/week at work and the girls don\u2019t mind, as long as they have fun and get to move and laugh. Another \u2018lazy\u2019 game that they absolutely love is \u2018Shark\u2019, where I sit or lie on my bed and reach out my arms pretending to be a shark about to catch them as they run between the bed and the cupboard. Perfect for a rainy day and for getting them to use up pent-up energy.<\/p>\n

Hoolahoops, skipping, soccer and rugby, or \u2018wugby\u2019 as my little one would say, are also some equipment-required favourites when they can find their \u2018gear\u2019 amongst their other prized possessions.<\/p>\n

If we\u2019re in the mood for more intellectually stimulating games, we set up the picnic blanket on the lawn and play \u201cI spy\u201d \u2013 the colour version for the time being but pretty soon we\u2019ll upgrade to the letter version as my girls become more literate.<\/p>\n

Then there are days when the weather is just right and we lie on our backs on the grass and do a bit of cloud-spotting. I am in awe of their vivid imaginations as they tell me about dragons and ships and giraffes that they see in the clouds.<\/p>\n

Hopscotch, clapping games and even the cup song from Pitch Perfect have featured on our \u2018play list\u2019 and even though they may not be expert hoppers or none of us can remember all the words to the clapping song, the most important thing is that they have fun and develop loads of skills without even realising it.<\/p>\n

The great thing about playing with them from a young age is that they will know how to play the games on their own as the need for adult play-time supervision decreases. Jungle-gyms, trampolines and bicycles, even just a wheelbarrow full on compost in my kid\u2019s case, all require minimal parental supervision for their age groups.<\/p>\n

I know that my two girls would love to play with me more, and for this World Play Day I\u2019m going to set a weekly reminder on my mobile saying, \u201cPlaytime!\u201d so that amidst my busy schedule, I take a little time to have some fun, for my girls and myself! I challenge you to do the same. Choose a time where you\u2019re mostly likely to have a gap, even if it\u2019s just 15 minutes, and just set that reminder. Make a list of games with your children and give them turns to close their eyes and randomly choose a game so that no sibling war breaks out. Next time they\u2019re bored, send them to the list and let them choose their own game to play. Most importantly, remember to have fun!<\/p>\n

And I\u2019m sure you have firm family favourite games, so please share.<\/p>\n

If you would like to support Cotlands activities on World Play Day email: info@cotlands.org<\/a>\u00a0 or\u00a0sms PLAY to\u00a038585 to donate R10<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

This article was originally written for Jozikids by Sholain Govender- Bateman<\/em> in 2015.<\/em><\/p>\n

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