{"id":8606,"date":"2022-02-15T14:00:57","date_gmt":"2022-02-15T12:00:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/responsive.jozikids.co.za\/zaparents\/?p=8606"},"modified":"2023-02-14T08:49:53","modified_gmt":"2023-02-14T06:49:53","slug":"diy-kids-parties-or-not","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/blog\/lifestyle\/parties\/diy-kids-parties-or-not\/","title":{"rendered":"Kids\u2019 parties: to DIY or not to DIY?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019m the daughter of a party-planning queen. I had ponies when I was three, a double-decker bus when I was four, and a fully sequined silver outfit at five. So you\u2019d think children\u2019s parties would be my happy place.<\/p>\n<p>They\u2019re not.<\/p>\n<p>I find them stressful, massively time-consuming to organise, messy, noisy and a distraction from the everyday work of\u2026 well, work.<\/p>\n<h2>DIY &#8211; and some non DIY Kids Parties<\/h2>\n<p><strong>So, when my littlie turned one<\/strong>, we opted for a party venue( Bambanani). Same again at two (The Oakleaf). It\u2019s easier: the equipment is there, the toys are there, the food and drink is there, and you don\u2019t have to clean up Armageddon afterwards.<\/p>\n<p><strong>By the time she turned three<\/strong>, we had a bigger house with a nice garden. Party #3 was at home. And I hired <a href=\"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/listing\/pretty-things-for-you\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">a <\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/parties\/party-planners\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">party planner<\/a>. Yup, for a three-year-old\u2019s birthday&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>But it\u2019s not quite as\u00a0extravagant as\u00a0it sounds, because my fabulous pro organised the theme, d\u00e9cor, kiddie table, sweeties, food, and entertainment, while I sorted the cake and party packs, and it cost me about 10% more than it otherwise would have.<\/p>\n<p>Score!<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_248532\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-248532\" style=\"width: 980px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-248532 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/kids-birthday-party-games-1575412704.jpg\" alt=\"DIY Kids Parties\" width=\"980\" height=\"491\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/kids-birthday-party-games-1575412704.jpg 980w, https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/kids-birthday-party-games-1575412704-300x150.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/kids-birthday-party-games-1575412704-768x385.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 980px) 100vw, 980px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-248532\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">www.countryliving.com<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><strong>Now my daughter is four<\/strong> and I\u2019ve DIYed most of this party. It\u2019s a cowboy party so, for the last 8 weekends, I\u2019ve been:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>hunting for non-sugar-filled party pack treats,<\/li>\n<li>planning a cowboy-themed (catered) menu,<\/li>\n<li>making sheriff badges,<\/li>\n<li>painting polystyrene hats,<\/li>\n<li>inventing table runners out of plaid wrapping paper,<\/li>\n<li>planting mini cactuses,<\/li>\n<li>decorating bunting,<\/li>\n<li>hand-lettering little food identification signs,<\/li>\n<li>learning the art of paper-fan construction,<\/li>\n<li>Googling how on earth to work with fondant, and<\/li>\n<li>liaising with <a href=\"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/parties\/party-entertainers\/face-painting\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">a face painter<\/a> and a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/parties\/party-entertainers\/character\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">character entertainer.<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>I\u2019ve had a lot of help from talented people and done a lot of work by hand. The irony? I\u2019ve loved every single crafty and organisational minute of it.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not sure if <em>I\u2019ve<\/em> changed or if this gene was always there, lying dormant until I had a child old enough to care about parties. But there you have it\u2026<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m Party Mom. And here are tips if you\u2019re heading for or thinking of DIY kids parties:<\/p>\n<h2>10 Tips For DIY Kids Parties<\/h2>\n<ol>\n<li><strong>Start planning really, really early.<\/strong> The good service providers start booking up 8-10 weeks in advance. Your guests have stuff going on. And there are only so many Saturdays and Sundays in a month. So send out a Save The Date as soon as you have a date and then start engaging with entertainers, etc.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Pinterest is your best friend.<\/strong> You don&#8217;t need to be arty, super-stylish or talented to pull off a DIY, but you do need craft inspiration &#8211; and other mommies\u2019 gorgeous successes are the best place to start. Many also come with free printable downloads and detailed instructions.<\/li>\n<li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Jozikids<\/a> is your second best friend<\/strong>, obviously. Once you know what sort of theme you\u2019re going with, all of the best services are here, in one place.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Start your (non-food) party shopping<\/strong> at the Chinese markets. They\u2019re the cheapest. You\u2019ll need a few hours for this, because you have to dig to find the good stuff. Whatever you can\u2019t find there you\u2019ll get, more expensively, at a Party Spot or similar big store, like Westpack. And whatever you can\u2019t find there, you\u2019ll get at one of the pricey but amazing niche party boutiques.<\/li>\n<li><strong>If your kids are younger (i.e. under 8)<\/strong>, organise a play-date for them on party day, so you can get everything ready without having them under-foot.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Pay someone to be\u00a0security-guard-gate-opener<\/strong> on the day, so that you don\u2019t have to listen for doorbells, open gates, and then see guests out. It\u2019ll save you a lot of running around and you\u2019ll be able to relax a bit more.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Close or lock the bedrooms<\/strong>, to confine the celebrating (and kid-related messing) to \u2018common areas\u2019 where there are plenty of adults around.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Appoint someone<\/strong> to be the official <a href=\"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/parties\/party-photographers\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">photographer<\/a>, from start to finish.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Enlist committed help for clean-up.<\/strong> Whether it\u2019s close family members or domestic staff, the aftermath of a party is always easier to tackle en masse.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Don\u2019t forget to buy the ice!<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Have fun &#8211; its your party!<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>Party 2014: Table setting by Pretty Things For You; Photography by Cilla Bloom Party 2015: D\u00e9cor by me; Photography by Robyn Davie Photography<\/p>\n<p><em>This article was originally written for Jozikids by Tiffany Markman in 2015.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>NB:\u00a0All the service providers in this article have been paid in full and are recommended on the basis of my satisfaction with them, not in return for freebies, discounts or positive reviews.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Note: If you enjoyed this article, and would like to stay updated with more, you can:<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><em>Subscribe to our free weekly Jozikids\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/member-registration\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">newsletter<\/a>\u00a0 for parents in Gauteng<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>Like us on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/jozikids.co.za\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Facebook<\/a><\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>Follow us on <a href=\"https:\/\/instagram.com\/jozikids\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Instagram<\/a><\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My daughter just turned four and I DIYed most of her party. With some help. Along the way I learned a lot. So here are 10 tips from a newly-crowned Party Mom, if you\u2019re heading for or thinking of a DIY party.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":131,"featured_media":352232,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"inline_featured_image":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[245],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8606","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-parties"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8606","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/131"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8606"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8606\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/352232"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8606"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8606"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8606"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}