{"id":816,"date":"2009-11-18T10:11:37","date_gmt":"2009-11-18T08:11:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/zaparents-blog\/?p=816"},"modified":"2022-06-09T20:53:42","modified_gmt":"2022-06-09T18:53:42","slug":"one-childs-journey-into-reading","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/blog\/parenting\/adoption\/one-childs-journey-into-reading\/","title":{"rendered":"The wonderful world of books &#8211; one child&#8217;s journey"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I don\u2019t remember actually learning to read; it\u2019s as if I always did. Although we grew up poor (five children to feed, clothe, and educate), my parents always had books in the house. And then of course, there were the books we inherited from my grandparents. My very old copy of The Wind in the Willows, with those simple yet beautiful illustrations, is still on my bookshelf. Ratty and Mole were my heroes (and still are!). Other old friends are The Secret Garden, with exquisite color plates, The Water Babies, Enid Blyton\u2019s Faraway Tree series, my collection of the Lucy Fitch Perkins\u2019 twin series, with her poignant stories of children of all eras and places around the world. I particularly loved Anne of Avonlea, The Little Princess and many others.<\/p>\n<p>The list of children\u2019s classics is endless and not so long ago I read them all over again. I \u2018inherited\u2019 \u00a0a \u00a0foster child from a disadvantaged background. This little girl came to me at age eleven, practically illiterate, scoring only 19% for English at school. Opening the doors into the wonderful world of books seemed insurmountable because she simply did not understand the connection between the written and spoken word. What to do? Begin at the beginning seemed a good idea.<\/p>\n<p>I started off with my old favourites and Mabel loved them. Suddenly, the words were not frightening because she was hearing about places and people she\u2019d never imagined. She\u2019d lean over my shoulder, breathing down my neck as I read, my finger tracing the words as I sounded them out. The pages began to surrender the magical words, and she found them enchanting! Fired with success, we moved onto the rest of the library, slowly devouring my children\u2019s classic book collection in very tiny bite-sized pieces. I was still doing most of the reading.<\/p>\n<p>One day, Mabel decided she\u2019d help out with the books, and began reading to me. It was still incredibly slow but I began to see the glimmer of light at the end of the tunnel. We got movies of books, watched them, and then read the books, just in case the moviemakers had left out some important bits. We expanded our repertoire book by book. I found other ways to sneak words into her day, not just when we were doing \u2018serious\u2019 reading. She read recipes with me when we baked; she read the instructions on the packaging to me while we prepared dinner; she read advertisements to me when we shopped. Suddenly words were a constant part of her life.<\/p>\n<p>Mabel also began to show her imaginative side at school. Her poems and creative writing pieces began to change, reflecting more color, bigger words, more complex themes and emotions. What a breakthrough! The final moment of success came when just recently she turned to my mother and said, \u201cGran, will you buy me a book?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>My mother nearly fell off her chair and replied, \u201cYou can have as many as you like, darling.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Mabel grinned. \u201cOh, then can you buy me all the <em>Twilight<\/em> books please?\u201d Thank you Stephenie Meyer for being the first author Mabel \u2018owns.\u2019 (Apparently vampires rock.)<\/p>\n<p>Her latest \u2018own\u2019 books? <em>Inkheart<\/em>, and <em>The Golden Compass<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>Her latest marks for English? A magnificent 75%.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI can do much better,\u201d she said, frowning. \u201cI\u2019m going to have to improve on this if I want to be a writer.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I have now adopted Mabel, not having my own children, and I can say the greatest compliment is that she has decided to become a journalist or a novelist (just like me).<\/p>\n<p>Recently I called her and, hearing her voice coming from her bedroom, asked, \u201cWhat are you doing?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Reply: \u201cI\u2019m reading!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Music to any parent\u2019s ears!<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\"><b><i>Note: If you enjoyed this article, and would like to stay updated with more, you can:<\/i><\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<ul class=\"ul1\">\n<li class=\"li2\"><i><\/i><span class=\"s1\"><i>Subscribe to our free weekly Jozikids\u00a0<\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/member-registration\/\"><span class=\"s2\"><i>newsletter<\/i><\/span><\/a><i>\u00a0 for parents in Gauteng<\/i><\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li2\"><i><\/i><span class=\"s1\"><i>Like us on\u00a0<\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/jozikids.co.za\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span class=\"s2\"><i>Facebook<\/i><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li2\"><i><\/i><span class=\"s1\"><i>Follow us on\u00a0<\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/instagram.com\/jozikids?igshid=1n8cwedrewul\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span class=\"s2\"><i>Instagram<\/i><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I don\u2019t remember actually learning to read; it\u2019s as if I always did. 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