{"id":18946,"date":"2019-07-06T16:20:46","date_gmt":"2019-07-06T14:20:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/zaparents-blog\/?p=18946"},"modified":"2022-06-16T12:26:11","modified_gmt":"2022-06-16T10:26:11","slug":"adhd-children-the-positives","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/blog\/education\/adhd\/adhd-children-the-positives\/","title":{"rendered":"ADHD Children : The positives that can help them thrive"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>We are always hearing about the difficulties experienced in raising and parenting ADHD children (attention deficit hyperactivity disorder\/attention deficit disorder). Now it&#8217;s time to look at the many positive character traits ADHD children have which can help them to thrive and succeed.<\/p>\n<p>Please note that every child is different. They may have the same diagnosis but they all have their own temperaments, characteristic and personalities. The list that follows is a generalisation and does not apply to everyone.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Hyperfocus<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>It&#8217;s often extremely difficult to tear our kids away from something they are interested in. When this is a wonderful hobby, a subject they are interested in or learning a new skill, this hyperfocus is a gift and keeps them on track for hours on end.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Adventurous and Curious<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Adventurous, curious and hyperactive are also characteristics used to describe ADHD children. When channeled constructively they are fantastic qualities often used to describe entrepreneurs and successful businesspeople. In work and life, these are very positive qualities when used effectively.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Resourceful and Inventive<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>ADHD children can be incredibly resourceful, innovative and inventive. I have watched my one son use his artistic talent to sell his works online, get commissions from others and earn money on the side (this was at 16 years old). This is a good example of how these children can think out of the box and in a lateral way which helps them get ahead.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Kind and Forgiving<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>And lastly, ADHD children are often incredibly forgiving, good-hearted and gregarious. This helps them in their interaction with others. I am grateful for these qualities when I think back on my early struggles with my eldest son. We had some hard times but over time have become so close and connected. Thank goodness for his forgiving, good-hearted nature!<\/p>\n<p>Parents of children with this condition often feel desperate and extremely frustrated. In\u00a0 these moments don&#8217;t forget the positive qualities!<\/p>\n<p>Just think of Albert Einstein who only started talking at two yrs old. His teachers constantly saw him as a poor student. Today, he is recognised as having been ADHD. Read Einstein&#8217;s own insightful thoughts on the matter:<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>\u201cEverybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid\u201d. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>This is often what happens with ADHD children in the school environment.<\/p>\n<p>Also remember:<br \/>\nRichard Branson, Walt Disney, Justin Timberlake, Michael Phelps.<br \/>\nThey are beautiful examples of ADHD people.<\/p>\n<p>Now go and give your child a big hug!<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Note: If you enjoyed this article, and would like to stay updated with more, you can:<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><em>Subscribe to our free weekly Jozikids\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/member-registration\/\">newsletter<\/a>\u00a0 for parents in Gauteng<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>Like us on\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/jozikids.co.za\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">facebook<\/a><\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>Follow us on\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/instagram.com\/jozikids?igshid=1n8cwedrewul\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">instagram<\/a><\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We are always hearing about the difficulties experienced in raising and parenting one\u2019s ADHD children Now it&#8217;s\u00a0 time to look at the many positive character traits that ADHD children have that can help them to thrive.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":250,"featured_media":19160,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"inline_featured_image":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[455,456,457],"class_list":["post-18946","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-adhd","tag-add-kids","tag-adhd-children","tag-hyperactive-kids"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18946","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/250"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18946"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18946\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":358992,"href":"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18946\/revisions\/358992"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/19160"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18946"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18946"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18946"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}