{"id":18384,"date":"2019-04-04T14:30:40","date_gmt":"2019-04-04T12:30:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/zaparents-blog\/?p=18384"},"modified":"2022-05-29T22:31:03","modified_gmt":"2022-05-29T20:31:03","slug":"cyberbullying","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/blog\/parenting\/bullying\/cyberbullying\/","title":{"rendered":"Cyberbullying"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"p1\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"><span class=\"s1\">\u00a0<\/span>Bullies have always existed. However, in the digital age, the cyberbullying we are seeing is worse than ever before for 2 main reasons:<\/span><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li class=\"p1\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Before we all had smartphones, a victim of bullying could go home from school and have some sort of break. Now the bullying we are seeing is round the clock.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">The type of content being shared is worse than ever before as people say things behind a screen that they would never say to someone\u2019s face.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<h2 class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Cyberbullying Meaning<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Cyberbullying is when someone, typically teens, bully or harass others on social media<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Anonymity is the root of all evil \u2013 people seem to think they can get away with saying whatever they want when they hide behind the veil of online anonymity. We are seeing the worst kinds of bullying taking place on anonymous apps such as Qooh.me or through anonymous profiles created on apps such as Instagram. We are seeing a lot of naming and shaming, direct personal attacks, slut shaming, fat shaming, pressuring others to send nudes, and revenge pornography<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Cyberbullying Effects<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">The consequences of cyberbullying in South Africa are more prevalent. We are seeing increased incidences of depression, anxiety and behaviour related to self-harm and even suicide as a direct result of cyberbullying.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">What can we do?<\/span><\/h2>\n<h3 class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">If YOU are being bullied:<\/span><\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Tell a trusted adult (a parent, guardian or teacher).<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Take screenshots to keep as evidence.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">BLOCK the bully.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3 class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">If you are aware that someone else is being bullied:<\/span><\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Don\u2019t join in (this includes commenting and sharing harmful content) and leave a WhatsApp group that hosts abusive content.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Report bullying to a trusted adult (a parent, guardian or teacher).<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3 class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">What legal options are available if you are being bullied?<\/span><\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">If you know the identity of the bully, and the bullying serious enough to cause you mental, emotional or psychological harm (or inspire the belief that harm could be caused), one mechanism available is to apply for a Protection Order under the Protection from Harassment Act.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Almost all social media platforms have a reporting function that allows the possibility for damaging content to be removed.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Finally, the Cybercrimes Bill, which will hopefully become law soon, has codified a lot of crimes relating to online activities. Specifically, a section\u00a0that criminalises the creation or distribution of \u201ca data message\u201d that incites the causing of any damage to property belonging to, or violence against, a person or group of persons which is harmful or intimate in nature, and which is distributed without the consent of the person involved. This would include a lot of content that we are loosely defining as cyberbullying.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">So lets hope it gets passed and in the meantime, please be diligent and be aware that any online platform can be abused whether anonymous or not.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Most importantly, keep the conversation going about how to combat this damaging behaviour.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Note: If you enjoyed this article, and would like to stay updated with more, you can:<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><em>Subscribe to our free weekly Jozikids\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/member-registration\/\">newsletter<\/a>\u00a0 for parents in Gauteng<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>Like us on\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/jozikids.co.za\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">facebook<\/a><\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>Follow us on\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/instagram.com\/jozikids?igshid=1n8cwedrewul\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">instagram<\/a><\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bullies have always existed. 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