{"id":178478,"date":"2020-12-24T20:58:11","date_gmt":"2020-12-24T18:58:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/zaparents-blog\/?p=178478"},"modified":"2022-06-22T10:57:41","modified_gmt":"2022-06-22T08:57:41","slug":"the-covid-2nd-wave-continues-protect-your-family","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/blog\/parenting\/covid-19-kids-families\/the-covid-2nd-wave-continues-protect-your-family\/","title":{"rendered":"As Covid&#8217;s 2nd wave continues, protect your family"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">So&#8230; the story continues&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">I was called last night to break the news to family that their family member (+- 65year old man) has just died after testing positive for Covid. He presented to hospital the night before, needing oxygen support, and now he has passed away&#8230; but wait, it gets worse&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">This man who passed away: <\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">1) His wife died from COVID in early October..<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">2) His eldest son died from COVID in late October..<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">3) His youngest son died from COVID 2 weeks ago&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">He came into hospital the night before, with his middle son, both COVID, both requiring oxygen. Now this son is the only member of the household left behind&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">I called this man&#8217;s daughter-in-law in to hospital (the wife of the eldest son who also died) to break the bad news and she brought his 2 younger sisters with.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">They told me they had just held a memorial service for the younger son earlier that same day&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Can you even imagine what this family has been through&#8230;?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">After they left, I found out that the son is actually in the same ward as him, but a different room. <\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">However, because of his condition and the hospital rules, he can&#8217;t even go see his father to say his last goodbyes&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">The most heartbreaking moment was telling the son the news, seeing him look at me with a blank expression, looking defeated, and hearing him say:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">&#8220;So I&#8217;m the last one left&#8230;&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">What do you even say to that?? This man is in his early 40s and he has lost his mother, his older brother, his younger brother and now his father&#8230;in the space of a few months&#8230;all to COVID&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">So PLEASE, I am begging you again.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">While our country experiences this second wave that is reaching daily numbers much worse than the first wave. And our hospitals are filled to beyond capacity.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Think about your family during this &#8220;festive&#8221; period. <\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Appreciate the time you have with them, but most importantly:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Protect them, <\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">because you are the frontline now<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Useful related articles:<\/span><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/zaparents-blog\/isolation-kit-a-shopping-list-to-help-you-get-through\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Covid-19 Isolation kit: a shopping list to help you get through<\/span><\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/zaparents-blog\/festive-season-covid-keep-safe\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">How to stay Covid safe this festive season, a doctor&#8217;s advise<\/span><\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><strong><em>Note: If you enjoyed this article, and would like to stay updated with more, you can:<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><em>Subscribe to our free weekly Jozikids\u00a0<\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/member-registration\/\"><em>newsletter<\/em><\/a><em>\u00a0 for parents in Gauteng<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>Like us on <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/jozikids.co.za\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em>Facebook<\/em><\/a><\/li>\n<li><em>Follow us on\u00a0<\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/instagram.com\/jozikids?igshid=1n8cwedrewul\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em>Instagram<\/em><\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I was called last night to break the news to family that their family member (+- 65year old man) has just died after testing positive for Covid. 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