{"id":15247,"date":"2017-11-27T10:42:55","date_gmt":"2017-11-27T08:42:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/responsive.jozikids.co.za\/zaparents\/?p=15247"},"modified":"2022-08-11T10:54:48","modified_gmt":"2022-08-11T08:54:48","slug":"ways-to-give-the-gift-of-generosity-to-kids","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/blog\/lifestyle\/charities\/ways-to-give-the-gift-of-generosity-to-kids\/","title":{"rendered":"Ways to give the gift of generosity to kids"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-size: revert; color: initial;\">Neurosurgeon and author Ben Carson puts it well when he reminds us that \u201cHappiness doesn\u2019t result from what we get, but from what we give\u201d.\u00a0 In today\u2019s material \u2018give-me\u2019 world of instant-gratification and self-absorption, it\u2019s easy to lose sight of giving, and complain about our kids being selfish.\u00a0 We get frustrated when they don\u2019t want to share or do anything for us, their siblings or others.\u00a0 What\u2019s amazing though, is how quickly, and naturally children become generous when they\u2019re given a bit of encouragement.\u00a0 Consciously building their generosity is a great way to build children\u2019s self-esteem. In helping others, they feel that they&#8217;re making a positive difference.\u00a0 Think of a six year old who makes something to give someone less fortunate.\u00a0 She feels a sense of contribution, self-acceptance, self-value as well as a sense of belonging on a broader scale.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>When children are given plenty of opportunities and encouragement to be generous, they naturally become more helpful and caring, developing loyalty and compassion for others.\u00a0 A good starting place to help children understand what it means to be generous is to teach them the importance of sharing, and talk about how you feel when you give.<\/p>\n<h2>Ideas for building generosity :<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>show them caring acts <\/strong>&#8211; share hugs and smiles<\/li>\n<li><strong>encourage gift making and giving <\/strong>&#8211; give to those less fortunate<\/li>\n<li><strong>comment positively when they are generous <\/strong>&#8211; this will motivate them to keep on giving and being kind<\/li>\n<li><strong>encourage spending time with someone &#8211; <\/strong>reading a book together or playing is another form of giving<\/li>\n<li><strong>create a &#8220;gratitude jar&#8221;<\/strong> &#8211; let them say, and write down, what they feel most grateful for each day, before putting the note in the jar<\/li>\n<li><strong>talk about what you\u2019ve done to help others<\/strong> \u2013 at dinner or even while driving in the car (and let children say how it makes them feel to help others).<\/li>\n<li><strong>visit a senior citizens\u2019 complex<\/strong> &#8211; offer to sing, dance, perform a concert or visit a lonely person regularly<\/li>\n<li><strong>visit and pet animals<\/strong> at an animal shelter<\/li>\n<li><strong>collect refuse for recycling<\/strong> or reusing for creative gifts<\/li>\n<li><strong>let them bake cookies <\/strong>or start a project for a charity<\/li>\n<li><strong>donate unwanted toys and clothes<\/strong> to a local children\u2019s shelter<\/li>\n<li><strong>look out for community projects and causes <\/strong>to become involved in<\/li>\n<li><strong>ask them for ideas of what generosity might look like<\/strong> &#8211; e.g. giving a gift on someone\u2019s birthday, or sharing a toy or a snack.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>These easy ideas go a long way to develop generosity, which in turn helps them feel grateful (and even cope better with challenges).\u00a0 The wonderful part about strengthening your child&#8217;s generosity is that it automatically strengthens yours.\u00a0 By putting some of these tips into practice, you&#8217;ll also start feeling more grateful, which improves your self-esteem too!<\/p>\n<p>Remember with a little bit of effort, any habit can be unlearned, and your kids can become far more helpful, kind and generous than you could ever have imagined.\u00a0 Make the changes yourself first.\u00a0 Lead the way and let them follow.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/services\/charities\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Click here<\/a> to find charity organisations in Johannesburg.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Note: If you enjoyed this article, and would like to stay updated with more, you can:<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><em>Subscribe to our free weekly Jozikids\u00a0<\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/member-registration\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em>newsletter<\/em><\/a><em>\u00a0 for parents in Gauteng<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>Like us on <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/jozikids.co.za\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em>Facebook<\/em><\/a><\/li>\n<li><em>Follow us on\u00a0<\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/instagram.com\/jozikids?igshid=1n8cwedrewul\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em>Instagram<\/em><\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When children are given plenty of opportunities and encouragement to be generous, they naturally become more helpful and caring, developing loyalty and compassion for others.  A good starting place to help children understand what it means to be generous is to teach them the importance of sharing, and talk about how you feel when you give.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":163,"featured_media":353139,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"inline_featured_image":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[53,71],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15247","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-charities","category-poverty"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15247","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/163"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15247"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15247\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":361145,"href":"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15247\/revisions\/361145"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/353139"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15247"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15247"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15247"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}