{"id":14982,"date":"2017-08-15T22:05:36","date_gmt":"2017-08-15T20:05:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/responsive.jozikids.co.za\/zaparents\/?p=14982"},"modified":"2022-06-20T10:16:46","modified_gmt":"2022-06-20T08:16:46","slug":"10-tips-for-encouraging-a-growth-mindset","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/blog\/parenting\/positive-parenting\/10-tips-for-encouraging-a-growth-mindset\/","title":{"rendered":"10 tips for encouraging a growth mindset"},"content":{"rendered":"

Have you heard of a growth mindset? It\u2019s become somewhat of a buzzword lately and that\u2019s because it really does make a difference to a child\u2019s ability to learn something and their confidence in trying new things.<\/span><\/p>\n

A fixed mindset is one in which we say things like: “I can’t do that” or “I am not good at something”. It\u2019s the belief that our abilities are fixed \u2013 that we are either clever or not, either sporty or not.<\/p>\n

The growth mindset is the opposite. With a growth mindset we acknowledge that we can always improve with a bit of effort. We understand that our brains are not fixed, but constantly changing; that our abilities are not just genetic but influenced by what we do. We see that it is possible for all people to learn new things, even though it may be more of a challenge for some.<\/p>\n

Why does this matter? Well, with a fixed mindset a child is less likely to try new things, and more likely to give up when something gets difficult \u2013 which can seriously limit their options in life. It also leads to disidentification and self-handicapping \u2013 protecting themselves from failure by either not investing their self-esteem or identity into something difficult, or having a good excuse ready for falling short.<\/p>\n

So here are ten tips for maintaining and encouraging a growth mindset:<\/p>\n

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  1. Expose your children to information on how the brain changes and learns. Teach them that intelligence grows like a muscle and it needs challenge in order to get the right exercise.<\/li>\n
  2. Don\u2019t praise cleverness – praise effort. Focus on a child\u2019s hard work rather than on the outcome of that work or on fixed measurements like IQ.<\/li>\n
  3. Encourage failure. Praise children for giving something a go and for having the courage to face challenges. Let them celebrate their failures as a sign of being brave enough to try. Show them how failure leads to growth.<\/li>\n
  4. Avoid superhero worship. Focus on everyday people who do amazing things through hard work and struggle.<\/li>\n
  5. Tell them stories of your own doubts and challenges and how you made it through.<\/li>\n
  6. Teach them to say, \u201cHow can I?\u201d instead of \u201cI can\u2019t\u201d. Using a question opens up creative thinking and stops the brain from giving up on the problem.<\/li>\n
  7. Teach them to add \u201c\u2026yet\u201d to the end of things they can\u2019t do. For example, \u201cI can\u2019t do maths\u2026 yet\u201d. This helps them to focus on what they still need to do to master something rather than on their current inability.<\/li>\n
  8. Give them examples of others who have failed and succeeded e.g. basketball players missing more goals than they hit.<\/li>\n
  9. Give them examples of where they have failed and succeeded e.g. struggling with a new computer game that they now play effortlessly.<\/li>\n
  10. Acknowledge their frustration when they are doing something difficult without jumping in and doing things for them.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    Everything is difficult at first. Our kids often don\u2019t get good role models of this because they see us doing things that we\u2019ve done for years and years and of course these things look easy. Then they try to do these same things and struggle. We need to remind them that we also struggled once. In fact, everyone struggles to some degree with a new task. But with practice and a dedication to continue, everything gets easier. We were all born with the ability to learn and grow \u2013 not just some people.<\/p>\n

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