{"id":14300,"date":"2017-01-30T18:42:36","date_gmt":"2017-01-30T16:42:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/responsive.jozikids.co.za\/zaparents\/?p=14300"},"modified":"2022-06-20T10:28:14","modified_gmt":"2022-06-20T08:28:14","slug":"the-grateful-parent","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/blog\/parenting\/being-present\/the-grateful-parent\/","title":{"rendered":"The Grateful Parent"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Parenting is tough and tiring and generally involves a multitude of thankless tasks performed endlessly day after day like an endless time loop. It is understandable that when we parents get together we\u2019re often just having a good old moan. And please, let me not take that away from you. Just sharing the burden and knowing someone else is going through it too can go a long way to making you feel like you can cope.<\/p>\n<p>However, if you\u2019re tired of the groaning and want to see things from a different perspective, here are some ideas on parenting gratitude to get you going\u2026<\/p>\n<h2>Today I am grateful for\u2026<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li>The pile of dishes in the kitchen &#8211; because they mean we have plenty to eat and a home with a kitchen and dishes for food preparation.<\/li>\n<li>My sick child &#8211; because I have the flexibility to be home to care for her and because I know I am needed by somebody.<\/li>\n<li>The pile of unanswered emails \u2013 because it means I have work and am busy and can earn enough to provide for my family.<\/li>\n<li>The toys all over the house \u2013 because they\u2019re a sign of the beautiful human beings who live here.<\/li>\n<li>My kids fighting \u2013 because they have siblings to try out their social skills on and they\u2019re learning to work things out on their own.<\/li>\n<li>My husband coming home late from work \u2013 because he\u2019s doing his best to provide for us.<\/li>\n<li>The wet washing hanging all over the bathroom \u2013 because we have the rain that we so need and plenty of clothes to wear.<\/li>\n<li>The Internet not working \u2013 because it tears us all away from our devices and into connection with each other.<\/li>\n<li>Feeling tired \u2013 because my life is full and I\u2019m involved with my kids to a level that has me falling into bed at the end of the day.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<figure id=\"attachment_248906\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-248906\" style=\"width: 920px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-248906 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/GRZk9kpTURBXy8wZmJiMGNkMTQyN2ZkZDk0MmUzNDYwOWFhMzA1OTUxMC5qcGeSlQMAXc0LuM0Gl5MFzQOYzQH0gaEwAA.jpg\" alt=\"grateful parents with toddler\" width=\"920\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/GRZk9kpTURBXy8wZmJiMGNkMTQyN2ZkZDk0MmUzNDYwOWFhMzA1OTUxMC5qcGeSlQMAXc0LuM0Gl5MFzQOYzQH0gaEwAA.jpg 920w, https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/GRZk9kpTURBXy8wZmJiMGNkMTQyN2ZkZDk0MmUzNDYwOWFhMzA1OTUxMC5qcGeSlQMAXc0LuM0Gl5MFzQOYzQH0gaEwAA-300x163.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/GRZk9kpTURBXy8wZmJiMGNkMTQyN2ZkZDk0MmUzNDYwOWFhMzA1OTUxMC5qcGeSlQMAXc0LuM0Gl5MFzQOYzQH0gaEwAA-768x417.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 920px) 100vw, 920px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-248906\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Credit: www.pulselive.co.ke<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>These are just some ideas from my current day, but you can find something beautiful and worth being thankful for in every day \u2013 it just takes a moment to reconsider the thing you\u2019re moaning about.<\/p>\n<p>I watched a documentary recently about a girl who was one of the few people to survive rabies without a vaccine. The girl\u2019s father was talking about how much he appreciates every day with his daughter now, having come so close to losing her. He smiles when she fights with her siblings, feels warmth in his heart when she backchats him, wants to hug her when she is moping about the house. He knows how lucky he is to have another day with her \u2013 whatever that day may bring.<\/p>\n<p>Do we really need to almost lose our kids to be a grateful parent? I don\u2019t think so. But I do think we just need the occasional reminder!<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Note: If you enjoyed this article, and would like to stay updated with more, you can:<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><em>Subscribe to our free weekly Jozikids\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/member-registration\/\">newsletter<\/a>\u00a0 for parents in Gauteng<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>Like us on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/jozikids.co.za\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Facebook<\/a><\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>Follow us on\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/instagram.com\/jozikids?igshid=1n8cwedrewul\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Instagram<\/a><\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Parenting is tough and tiring and generally involves a multitude of thankless tasks performed endlessly day after day like an endless time loop<br \/>\nHowever, if you\u2019re tired of the groaning and want to see things from a different perspective, here are some ideas on parenting gratitude to get you going\u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":139,"featured_media":14305,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"inline_featured_image":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[73],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-14300","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-being-present"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14300","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/139"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=14300"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14300\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/14305"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=14300"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=14300"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jozikids.co.za\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=14300"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}